How God speaks to us?

From the Bible we can see that God talks to us, His people, in different ways.

Jesus says that His “sheep” will hear His voice.

Does this mean that we will literally hear His voice?

Like Paul heard Him when Jesus appeared to him on the road to Damascus?

Paul could hear with his own ears what Jesus said to him.

We know that this kind of hearing doesn’t happen very often.

Usually hearing God’s voice is interpreted as receiving His words that can come to us in many different ways.

Biblical “hearing” can be defined in many ways and includes much more than physical hearing, it also means receiving and acting according to the word.

We can find many different ways how God speaks to us from the Bible.

Most important of all: The Bible

First and foremost God speaks to us through His written word.

Our minds are renewed by it, and through it we can understand and apply correctly the other ways God gives messages to us.

We are living the time of the new covenant, so it is important to know the New Testament so we can understand the writings in the Old Testament in the correct way.

We do not live under the Moses’ law or in the old covenant but we live in the mercy that was given us through Jesus Christ.

Holy Spirit has inspired all the 66 books in the Bible.

When you read Paul’s letter to the Romans you can rest assured that Holy Spirit inspired it and used Paul to write it.

He was given the authority to write God’s message to the Romans.

When someone says that God does not speak to him, we know that it is either a lie or misunderstanding.

We can read and hear God’s own words written by His prophets and apostles daily, if we want to.

This is the most common, and most important, way how the Holy Trinity talks to people.

Through it we can learn His will for us.

We can see that God wants us to love Him, to love each other, our spouses, children, neighbors, and so on.

We are given the faith and understanding that this is the fruit of the Spirit and it is given to us when we are born again.

Through the power and mercy that God gives us.

It does not come from following the law.

Other ways of God talks to us

Through Bible we can learn more about the other ways God can speak to us.

In our lives are many moments where we need special direction and wisdom so we can make the right decisions and choices.

There are people who believe that they need to feel the Holy Spirits guidance every day.

God does not lead us through our feelings.

Knowing Him, is knowing His will.

I do not need special guidance to know that I need to go to work every day.

There are days when I don’t “feel” like going to work.

If I believe that these feelings are God’s speech to me, I won’t go to work.

But this is not God’s way to guide us but we are guided by knowing His will.

If we have a job, we don’t need to ask God every day “God, should I go to work today?”.

Why not?

Because if I have a job, I can know, by reading the Bible, that God wants me to do my work wholeheartedly and with responsibility.

Instead, I can pray like this: God, give me wisdom, joy and strength to do my work today so I could be a blessing to others and fulfill your will.

Starting point in my job is to use all my talents, abilities and common sense in it.

And to trust the Holy Spirit to be with me and to guide me, even if I didn’t have any special feelings.

God talks through angels

When God wants to change our lives, he guides us to the change.

The way He guides us is different from one time to another.

And any way He uses to guide us isn’t holier than another.

An angel appearing with God’s word is not more holy than His speech through the Bible.

We know that an angel can appear to us in a dream or a visible way through our daily experience.

But again, having an angel visit us is not what our faith should be about.

Dreams given us by God

God can talk to us through our dreams.

Not all of our dreams are from God.

We can learn from the Bible that dreams given by God always have a special message and can be understood.

Some of them need to be interpreted and others can be understood in themselves.

Dreams without a clear and consistent message are not God’s speech to us.

Witness of the Spirit and the voice of the Holy Spirit

God talks to us through the testimony and the voice of the Holy Spirit.

These are two different things and they should not be mistaken with each other.

But both happen inside us because the Holy Spirit lives in a person who has born again.

Holy Spirit bears witness to our spirit that we are children of God (Romans 8:16).

This witness is the knowledge that we have in us of being a child of God.

It does not happen in our intellect.

When we wake up in the morning we do not need to explain ourselves that we are children of God and convince ourselves from it.

We have the witness in us; God’s Spirit bears witness to our spirit.

It is not necessary to hear it, or to be assured by someone every moment.

There are moments when you could have heard the voice of the Holy Spirit.

His voice inside you is very different from the witness of the Spirit.

It really is His voice and you can hear what it says.

If Holy Spirit in deed lives in us, why could we not hear what He says?

God’s speaks to us through our will

In Paul’s letter to Philippians (Phil 2:13-14) we are told that God works in us, both to will and work for His pleasure.

When we grow closer to God, and read His word in the Bible, we start to will what He wills.

His wishes and goals for us become our wishes and goals.

It may be hard, especially at the beginning, but we must not be discouraged but pray and read His word.

That way we can learn what His will is and be changed by Him, so that it will become our will too.

Atlas Girl by Emily Wierenga

Atlas Girl by Emily Wierenga is a superb book, inspiring, interesting and well written. Beautiful prose that makes you sigh and say, I wish I could write like this. It is a tale that takes you with it and carries you tight while you reach out for the characters and feel their stories. It is a story of unspoken, undescribed pain and fear that could not be put in words, of struggle with the life, and destruction of that life. Atlas Girl is chronicle of family dysfunction trough generations, incomprehension between mother and daughter, and a difficult father daughter relationship, of hope and disappointment and impossibility of communication.

A narrative that was almost ended by anorexia before it really started and a story of how God and love can go a long way and bring joy and life back again. This is a journey of self-discovery, search for an identity, a trek through life, relationships and faith, a love story of two people, complete in each other. Emily Wierenga takes us together with her to a mission trip to Lebanon and her parent’s house in Canada, to the University and her little student flat. Through all this she flies, on her wings of faith.

She takes us to a mission in Africa where she lived with her family as a little child, through her grandmother’s suicide and her mother’s brain cancer. The travelling is hard and the map is dark and angry as she leads us to her childhood’s pain and longing and to the happy years of her marriage and the difficult bliss she found with her husband. Their separation when they dated and the way they became a couple again through the mercy of God. The trail takes us through her relationship with her little brother, the mutual love, disappointments, pain and happiness in each other.

In the book, Emily Wierenga says that when you are a child, God is the face of your loved ones. And she tells us how she imagined a God who was always serious and studying unless he was at church where he smiled and laughed with people for hours. That she needed love, someone to wrap her up in their arms and tell her how beautiful she was and to make her laugh. She needed to know that God wasn’t her dad or mom, that he isn’t the face of your loved ones, that they make mistakes but God doesn’t. And because she could not get what she needed, because she could not control her life, she stopped eating and became anorexic.

When the author was thirteen, dying at the hospital, she was finally able to see God for who he was. He was grace, a Savior, and she began to believe with more than her mind, because she wanted to live. She still did not understand God the Father, but Jesus became the grace she spoke but never let get too close.

Emily Wierenga tells us honestly in her book how she brought all of herself to her relationship with her husband, her insecurities and her neglected childhood. Sometimes she would fake it, sometimes she would enjoy and sometimes she would think that she would never look confident and wonder what his husband sees in her.

After High School the author rolled into a Bible College for a year and dreamed of going oversees to work in a mission, away from her family. Then she graduated and went to a mission trip and stopped believing. After flirting with disbelief in brief moments it all piled and knocked her over. She was tired of pretending things were okay when they weren’t, of pat answers and cozy Scripture versus. She wanted to know what was real, even if it meant being heathen.

When she found out that God had woken her mother up every night to pray for her, she found a God who cared about her, a God who was bigger than all of her questions. God will always get it right, says Emily Wierenga. “He is the one who sets burning bushes alight. He is the one who gives us holy ground. No matter where we are, if God is there, the earth is sacred”.

The author tells us about the moment when she understood that the man who was to become her husband was meant for her “I knew because I wasn’t looking at his face of his body… I was looking inside him, and suddenly understood what I needed in a man; someone who would be loyal to me until the end, someone who believed in truth, someone I could trust to be a good father to my children and a good husband to me”.

She tells us how she and her future husband prayed for a week before they decided to become a couple again and how God taught her how He perceives man, and woman, not as two bodies but He sees their souls. And God told her that he was the man He had made for her. To her husband He told that it was his choice. When they got together to talk about their future, he told her that he chose her, that he always had.

God gave her a husband who would be there when she searched who she was and could not find herself. He would be there and tell her who she was, “You are loved, Emily” he would say, while she would cry. Just before her wedding a friend tells her that the “marriage is like prayer. You can choose to enter it in duty, and endure it as an individual, or enter it willing to lose oneself to the Spirit, thus becoming one with the heart of God.”

But there is still something missing, and after returning from her mission trip from Lebanon the author finds herself disappointed, she feels that God has failed her and she was done praying to God, she was praying to anorexia now. Her words are raw when she tells about her mother’s cancer and her pain and doubts. Her questioning of a loving God who watches a grown woman wet her bed. “Watch me take care of you”, God whispers to her. And the author wonders what does it look like, when God takes care of you? Is it at all what her life has become?

Emily Wierenga takes us to a journey from a near death to anorexia to new health and a search for a future. A trip with a bend and twist to a relapse and her starving herself in fear of losing the control of her life. A travelling together that leads us to her pregnancy and the miracle of birth, that the doctors said would never be possible. She takes us to a miracle a healing, of becoming whole and trusting your life in God’s hands, of letting go and receiving everything.

A quote from Emily Wierenga: “I’m learning to live in community and to create, because for me, that makes life meaningful. We are born to create. We are creators in his image. The world may not be perfect, but he can make it seem perfect for the people we love. Home is where the heart and heaven reside, collide, and inscribe themselves on us.”

I loved the book, I love the book and I loved reading it. If you enjoy beautifully written prose, words that flow like water and have the force and rawness of hurricane wind, then this book is for you. If you want to read an inspiring story of a woman who faced incredible odds in her life and found a way to overcome them, then this book is for you. If you want to read an excellent book, and enjoy doing it, then this book is for you. If you enjoy reading books, I recommend this book to you, and even if you don’t enjoy reading them, I recommend you try this one, because it just might change your mind about books in general!

About the Author

Emily T. Wierenga is an award-winning journalist, artist, and the author of five books. Her first novel, A Promise in Pieces, is releasing Spring of 2014, and her memoir, Atlas Girl: Finding Home in the Last Place I thought to Look (Baker Books) is releasing July 1, 2014.
She is a columnist for The Christian Courier, a bi-weekly contributor to MOPS International, a monthly contributor to The Better Mom, and a paid contributor to The High Calling. In addition to being associate editor, ghostwriter, copy editor, and staff writer, Wierenga has written for Adbusters, Prodigal Magazine, Today’s Christian Woman, Radix, Christian Week, Faith Today, Geez, The Anglican Planet, Focus on the Family, Christian Courier, and In Touch.
Emily is also a blogger with World Help, and in January of 2014 traveled to Rwanda and Uganda on a bloggers’ trip.
Emily speaks at women’s retreats, universities, churches and conferences, about her journey with anorexia nervosa, and was one of the keynote speakers at the premiere Christian eating disorders conference, Hungry for Hope 2013, where she shared the platform with Kirsten Haglund, Miss America 2008.
Emily serves as an Official Ambassador for FINDINGbalance and is a Navigator with the National Eating Disorders Association.
She has appeared multiple times on 100 Huntley Street, The Drew Marshall Show and Chris Fabry Live!,as well as on Breakfast Television Edmonton.
Each week Emily hosts an online meme called Imperfect Prose. On July 29th, 2013, Emily wrote a letter on her blog to Kate Middleton on the postpartum body. It went viral, receiving over half a million views in one week, and was shared by Dove.
She is represented by Sandra Bishop of MacGregor Literary.

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Disclosure: I was provided with a e-copy of this book for review purposes.  All opinions expressed in this post are my own. 

Serie on the Basics of Christianity

I have reached the end of a series that has been very dear to me.

When I started posting these messages I was not at all certain of what the reaction would be.

And I did not feel, and I still do not feel, like an authority about Christianity.

But I wanted to talk about the basics.

What is it that we really believe, the essence of Christian faith.

Not the differences and difficult questions but what is the heart of Christianity.

It may seem like a simple thing but it really is not.

And I could not have done it without all that I have learned from so many people full of God's love and spirit.

And I could not have done it without prayer and God Himself.

I hope I have not mistaken too much.

But here are the links to all the posts in the serie on the Basics of Christianity:

To begin, read Natural law. A post about the law we all have in our hearts.

If you would like to know what comes after read the post about Moral law.

Having read that, you'll need to know Which moral law to choose. 

If you agree we need to choose a moral law, maybe you'll agree that We need God.   

After we have understood the need we have for God, it is time to research What is sin. 

Having accepted your need for God, what kind of God is exactly a Christian God? This you can find out about in What we Christians believe. 

Why is it so hard to follow Christian faith? What prevents you to believe in God?

Do not let yourself to be fooled by Christianity and water. 

Who was first? The chicken or the egg? Read the post Of good and band - who was there first? The chicken or the egg? 

If God is above everything else and did not create evil then Why God accepts the evil in the world?

We run on God, like a car on gas. This is why We cannot live without God.  

Do you want to know about the good dreams God sent to us? Read Who is Jesus?

Are you ready to believe? Do you know who The Perfect Penitent is? And what He means to us.

But How can God help us if He has never needed help Himself?  

Would you like to know how to obtain this new life in Christ? Then read Conductors of the new life.  

How to achieve that new life, what is needed? Read in What is repentance?

What to do after repenting? Are you wondering if this is for you? Now, It is time to choose.

Wondering what to do after you have given your life to Christ. Read How to preserve Christ-life after acquiring it?